Anonymous said: Sometimes I feel a little bit confused about my gender. I look like a girl and my sex is a girl but sometimes I feel like I should be a guy and sometimes neither. I don't know what it means or if it's just a phase idk sorry
Listen, what you need to learn is that your gender is not predefined! Your sex is not a girl- your sex is a collection of hormones of organs. Your gender is much more personal and deep than that.
If you feel like you “should be” a guy, maybe you are a guy! And if you feel your gender changes, it does! Simple as that. There aren’t rules about your identity and who you should be.
And just because something feels strange and confusing right now, it doesn’t make it any less valid and real and important!
Please remember that your gender isn’t something you should ever feel confusion or conflict about, only curiosity. There are no restrictions here. Explore and learn. Let yourself think things without dismissing them as silly, or a phase.
If I were you, I would look up three things- “bigender”, “genderfluid”, and “agender.” Maybe they will help give you a bit more insight into what you’re feeling.
landapples said: Look up Land by Takatsugu Muramatsu. It makes me think of your blog
ah its cool! ty!